I am a good cook

What’s your favorite thing to cook?

One of misconception of people diagnosed with bipolar disorder is that we are disorganized and unpredictable.

This is a lie.

Despite being labelled as ‘bipolar’ I am very well organised and quite predictable. I lived in four different countries, and each move was well planned and organised. I always made lists of things to do, dividing them in urgent and non urgent. I successfully settled in different cultures and environments, and always made friends wherever I went.

Also, I am very predictable. If I say I will do something, I do it, unless something unpredictable happens outside of my influence. I am always on time (actually, usually, five minutes earlier), and always on top of any deadlines.

I also have a strict routine. I have to. I raise a son and have a cat. Both need food and some stability. Therefore, I plan things in advance. I order my food online and cook more or less the same things, where I don’t have to read a recipe, and this brings me to the following observation about myself:

I am a good cook.

Being a good cook doesn’t mean that you always have to present dishes that you can eat in the best French restaurants. Even the smallest dish with a couple of ingredients can be delicious. When I have time I try new recipes, as both me and my son are foodies, but because I work and often lack time for culinary experimentations, I just cook what I know already.

We eat lasagne, paella, risotto, roasts with mashed potatoes and gravy, fried potatoes and meatballs, – rarely anything that would take more than forty minutes of my time.

And because I know that it takes only forty minutes and I know how to cook, I usually enjoy the moment, by listening to music and adding magic to my cooking, such as original spices and stuff.

Cooking should never be boring.



9 responses to “I am a good cook”

  1. I learned to cook in my mother’s kitchen.

    I forced myself to learn because I knew I would be living alone for a while and would need to be able to cook for myself.

    I prefer curries even though they are a bit hard to make. But I also will soak some oats in milk and call it breakfast.

    For many years I lived in a cooperative community that had a cooking (“galley”) staff and ate communally in a mess hall. So I lost some of my skills and desire to cook during that time. But I still prepare most of my own meals, as I cannot afford to pay others to do it for me.

    1. I love curries too! But they aren’t easy to make indeed!

  2. You’ve got life running smoother than a Swiss watch—organized, predictable, and delicious! Honestly, if being “unpredictable” means occasionally throwing in a surprise spice while cooking, then that’s the kind of chaos I can fully support.
    Keep enjoying those well-planned meals and proving the misconceptions wrong—one perfectly timed lasagne at a time! 🍽️😆

    1. Thank you very much for your comment! Yes, misconceptions about bipolar disorder are huge! I am writing about it more on my Substack: here is a link https://ekaterinanetchitailova.substack.com?r=17sy6c&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profile

      1. Thank you, Sure to check, my friend.

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I am a doctor of philosophy, a university lecturer, and a lover of cats, fine wine, dancing, theatre, and human eccentricity. I was born in the Soviet Union (Moscow). I am fluent in four languages, and have spent all my adult life studying (except from 18 to 19) working and living throughout Western Europe. Despite a surname-Netchitailova- that translates from Russian into English as “unreadable”, my greatest passions in life are reading and writing. My personal struggles have made me appreciate the manifestations of weirdness that exist everywhere.

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